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Was this indecent exposure?

07 May

Is indecent exposure illegal and can indecent exposure s end a person to jail?
Tonight I’ve asked a long time neighbor to give me an extra quarter for the laundry machine and he did and then he asked if I can post an ad on craigslist for him because he saw me bringing people to look at my car that is for sale. He also has a car and his is 2005 Corolla.

After I posted the craigslist ad he asked if he can finish watching the new rental release I was watching and I let him watch with me and we were the only 2 in the house and things got a little bizarre.

He first asked me if I can go to clubbing with him and I said I don’t club and then he told me that he has a white girlfriend and he has sex often but from his behavior towards me it appears that is a lie and I made him leave before the movie was finished.
I knew this neighbor off and on for a few years and his friends also know me.
Before I made him leave he started with how his penis is larger than most Somali men and in my head I’m thinking “why would he tell me that” and I just threw in “Really”. I told him “I don’t want to keep rewinding the movie because I keep missing because you keep talking.” A few minutes later he said “Look, my **** is long isn’t it, and he was kept insisting that I look at the outline of it through his sweat pants and I didn’t look and just kept looking at the movie and he finally gave up. During the whole time I had some curiosity and wanted to ask him if he was gay but didn’t want to offend him and even if he was gay I didn’t mind but advances towards me such as showing the outline of his penis was very much unwelcome. He told me he has a porno movie and he went down to get it but I was expecting women to be in that movie but it was all men, it was a gay porno and he told me he found it on the floor in the building and I doubt he did. I took it out and put my movie back in.
I got up from sitting on the floor to sitting on the couch and he also got up and said he stretched his legs out on the couch and I told him “How am I suppose to sit, do you want my back leaning on your feet and I got up and sat in the other couch and he kept saying” No, no just sit just sit there” and I told him “I am not comfortable to sit there like that”
He kept asking me he just wants to see the porno movie for comedy purposes only but I doubt that.

I am glad he left peacefully because I did not want to get physical with him and force him to leave.

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  1. velcropap

    May 7, 2010 at 12:31 pm

    it can’t be exposure if he didn’t expose anything.

     
  2. KevinM

    May 7, 2010 at 1:15 pm

    He didn’t expose anything, so it’s not indecent exposure.

    Thank you for not including any pictures.

     
  3. JustPeachy !!!

    May 7, 2010 at 1:39 pm

    No, it was not indecent exposure.

     
  4. sgoldperson

    May 7, 2010 at 2:29 pm

    Sounds a lot closer to Sexual Harassment. As was said this WASN’T indecent exposure. The other problem is too much of what was going on was welcomed when it started. He put the porno in with your permission, you didn’t like it so you shut it off. Since you allowed it to be started you can’t call it illegal. Since he left without an issue there is little you can say about him being there.

     
  5. barn

    May 7, 2010 at 3:09 pm

    You may not be able to do anything legally, yet.
    But you sure can keep this pervert out of your life, house and away from you, forever.

     
  6. lalu212

    May 7, 2010 at 4:04 pm

    That is awkward. It can’t be called indecent exposure (he didn’t flash you) but I think he’s hitting on you. If you don’t like it tell him straight up that you’re straight and that he has to stop doing and saying uncomfortable things. If he continues, don’t let him into your house and cut him off.