Movie Summary

Do you think that if a man has never been around his kids in 6 1/2 years (they are 8 and 7years old) and then has his new girl pay child support for him should see these kids? I have been with my husband for 6 years now and he is all my kids know as a father. We have never recieved a dime of child support because my ex has been in prison. He was in and out of jail when he and I were together and I always tried to stay by his side for our kids sake. Well the last time he got locked up I moved on and never looked back. Now about 3 months ago my ex was released and apparently met a lonely woman with money who was sending him money in prison and now she is buying him everything he needs and even sent me money for the kids. Is this right? I mean I want my kids to know who they come from but I don’t want them to get these kinds of messages….you know that you can live a messed up life and then someone is always there to bail you out. He has never showed he can do a dam thing.
would you introduse your kids to a guy like this if they don’t know him?
should I make him prove himself?
Or should I not accept anymore money (they only sent it once) and let a judge determin the situation?
The woman he is with has money so she can probably get a good lawyer and then who knows what could happen.
Is this Ok for the kids?
The only Dad they know is my husband and they love him soooo much. And they know he loves them.